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If your wedding day is going to start with a barat (aka groom’s processional), plan it well, as this is not only your groom’s grand entrance, but it’s also the big kickoff to your special day! To help you plan your barat, CitySaheli has identified some key parts of this ceremony for you to consider.
The Grand Entrance.
First, think about how you want your groom to arrive. The options are endless – a traditional white horse, the extravagant elephant, a fancy helicopter, the simple charming walk in with family and friends or something different and unique. Just make sure your choice corresponds with the tone of your wedding and suits your groom’s personality. It’s important that your groom feels comfortable during the processional. This really is his ceremony.
Rain or shine.
Think weather. CitySaheli has seen many grooms get torched in severe heat, causing them to sweat up a storm (a photo faux pas!). If its going to be hot, consider a short processional or one that is indoors. Planning the barat outside? Have a contingency plan for rain such as a covered outdoor spot or an inside lobby area.
Dance, dance, dance.
Music is a critical component of any barat. Many barats have a dhol player, who will get the party started by encouraging the groom’s party to dance with his lively energetic drumming. The goal is to get your guests excited and in a celebratory spirit. If you plan on using a dhol player, try one you have heard before or that has come recommended. Also, make sure that your dhol guy sings in a native tongue you and your family are familiar with, since songs can be sung in different languages. On a tight budget? Use a tape recording or ask friends and family to be prepared to clap and cheer. The excitement of family and friends during a barat is truly priceless.
Food and drink.
Will snacks or drinks be served during or after the Barat? Some people choose to provide drinks, such as juices or water, if they are getting married in the middle of the summer and are expecting a hot day. Others serve snacks soon after the barat, as it may be a few hours before your guests will be fed again. Although food and drink are not necessary, it’s a nice touch. And, if you’re looking to add even more South Asian flavor, serve sweet lassi, watermelon juice, or South Asian sweets from your local region.
Family greetings.
Usually the “milne” ceremony follows the barat. This is when the bride’s parents greet the groom and his family. This is also when the dancing stops. Prepare your photographer and videographer for the transition from one ceremony to the next, so they are prepared to capture this special moment.
Prepare your guests.
The barat is one of the most exciting parts of the Hindu wedding ceremony. Some of your guests may have never attended a barat and may not know what is expected of them. Try identifying these guests and explain to them what this ceremony is all about. You can include a simple description of the barat in your wedding invitation or try sending a personal note to these guests. Doing this will likely help them enjoy the barat and feel more comfortable.
City Saheli Picks in NY Tri-State Area
Horses: For decorated horses and carriages and a team familiar with barats check out Pony Share.
Dhol Players: The dhol players CitySaheli recommends do not have websites. If you would like more info please email us at info@citysaheli.com and we would be happy to provide it to you.
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